“Confidence comes from being responsible, working hard, and being involved in your own life. Even when you fail, you can grow from your experiences (Stone, N.D.).” For many years I've had confidence in my ability to work hard and succeed. But when I graduated from high school more than ten years ago, I went straight into community college. I instantly decided I wanted to enjoy life and take a break from education. I worked, traveled, and spent time with friends and families. I later married, had a beautiful baby girl, and became the only responsible parent.
Although I feel like I mastered the art of ownership, I started sliding down the educational pyramid and needed to take ownership of my life. I am embarrassed by my lack of academic performance and overwhelmed with self-disappointment. Nevertheless, many of us know or have experienced that being a new mom is a task one will endure; however, incorporating that with a full-time job and school is a lifetime of endurance.
I reconstructed my priorities and organized my schedule and timeline for school. I dedicate a few days a week just to school, and I will save a few hours for my daughter on the days I work. When committing myself to all other events, I prioritize what's more important to me and my success. Although I have minimal time to do many family activities with my daughter, I'll spend every free moment with her. I hope she will understand someday and refrain from feeling I was never present. Ultimately, “you learn from your mistakes and gain wisdom for the future.” (Stone, n.d.)
References
Stone,
M. (n.d.). 6. Why Do You Lack Pride and
Confidence? - Own Your Education!: A Student’s Guide to Greater Success in
School (and Life) [Book].
Www.oreilly.com; Pearson.
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https://learning.oreilly.com/library/view/own-your-education/9780133573466/ch06.html
Hi Amy,
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Good luck with everything; your kid is lucky to have you as a mom. :)
Hey Amy great post! I can relate with you a lot on your post, it's definitely easy to get distracted by life, and sometimes hard to pick yourself back up. I applaud you for pushing yourself to go to school, while also balancing raising a daughter. Just know your daughter is proud of you :)
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